What You Can Control - Focus on these
What You Can’t Control- Don’t focus on these
“The difference between living and survival. Survival is being barely able to pull through something. Living is being present and enjoying each moment.”
Carleigh Fairchild, Season 3 Alone contestant
I started binge watching the realty television show “Alone” via HULU – starting with season 3. Never seen the show before (not sure why) but now can’t get enough. Love it!
If you haven’t seen the show, it follows the self-documented struggles of contestants dropped into a remote area with a limited number of supplies who need to build shelters and live off the land for as long as they safely can (there are no camera crews – they are truly alone). The last person surviving, either by not giving up or being removed for medical reasons, wins $500,000.
In many ways, what show contestants go through mirrors what we go through as chronic pain patients. Both contestants and patients:
The quote above from season 3 contestant, Carleigh Fairchild, reminded me, it’s often the struggle with pain that is the most difficult, not the pain itself. To survive is to struggle. To live is fulfillment.
If the show contestants can manage the difficult conditions they face, we can do the same and live well, despite pain.
Imagine being in a car with your chronic pain.
Where is the pain? Is pain behind the steering wheel - determining where you go and what you do? Or are you driving?
Here are some ways to control pain.
Are you feeling stressed? Caught up in the COVID-19 madness?
Pain and tension are closely related. Muscles tighten and put pressure on nerves resulting in even more pain.
Deep breathing, yoga, tai chi, guided meditation, and muscle relaxation reduce tension.
Below are links to some helpful exercises.
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